Hit on him first – and see him never letting go of you.
What if you learned some techniques for how to make the first move? Entirely without coming across as desperate. Then turning it around to make him chase you.
Imagine that it’s friday night. You are at a bar drinking with your best friends. You have been drinking maybe just one (or two?) glasses of wine too much, but it’s weekend – Who cares? Weee! You spot a super hot guy next to you and you burst out: ” Hey, you’re cute!” You look him deep into his eyes and add: “Call me next Thursday.”
This is the beginning of a true story. How does it end? This couple is still happily married after 7 years together.
What is the trick of making the first move?
The rest of the story goes… The guy diligently waits until Thursday before he gives the girl a call. When he calls, the girl – now sober – no longer remembers if he is attractive (!) In a state of panic she tells him that she will call him back and promptly hangs up. She immedately gets on the line to her best friend. Can she provide any information? The friend confirms: “Yes, he’s hot, you should definitely meet him!” The girl calls the guy back and arrange for a date.
Don’t you think the girl had a spark of genious for hanging up on him? I do! Surely the guy must wonder – have I just been rejected? The girl is acting hot and cold. He is bound to be confused. This has the potential of stirring up a lot of emotions.
Then there is the surprise element. When the guy calls, I am sure the last think he expects is for her to hang up on him. It is unpredictable. When you do something surprising – you will stand out. Now you are different from the rest. Now he will remember you.
⋆ Keep him on his toes; Act a little hot and cold – Be unpredictable so he can never guess your next move
⋆ Be the one that stands out in any crowd; Be different and make yourself the one he will never forget
⋆ Dating IS a game; have fun playing it
Do you have a story where you made the first move? How did it go?